Cara Memujuk Lelaki~

"Isu Cinta - 4 Cara Memujuk Lelaki

Adakah mereka pernah merajuk dengan korang, bak kata pepatah dalam hati ada taman. Kalau dah merajuk tolong la pujuk.. Jom kita baca cara memujuk lelaki :)

4 Cara Memujuk Lelaki :
1. Berikan si dia ruang untuk bersendirian
Apabila seseorang lelaki merajuk, dia sebenarnya memerlukan masa untuk menenangkan fikirannya. Dia perlukan masa untuk bersendirian bagi membolehkan dia memikirkan sedalam-dalamnya apakah yang telah berlaku.
Apakah punca berlakunya masalah tersebut? Adakah dia berhak untuk merajuk? Apakah tindakan yang perlu dia lakukan bagi menyelesaikan masalah itu? Dan pelbagai lagi persoalan yang dia cuba fikirkan bagi mencari jawapannya.

2. Sentiasa memberikan si dia sokongan
Anda sebagai seorang pasangan yang memahami, berikan si dia sokongan yang diperlukan. Jika dia mendiamkan diri dengan menonton televisyen dan tidak mengendahkan anda, biarkan si dia berbuat apa yang dia inginkan.
Ikutkan sahaja rancangan televisyen yang dia sedang tonton dan jangan sesekali mengubah siaran televisyen ke siaran kegemaran anda. Walaupun dari luaran kita nampak dia sedang menonton televisyen, tetapi di dalam akal fikirannya si dia sedang memikirkan masalah yang sedang berlaku.

3. Jangan bertanyakan tentang perasaannya
Ketika si dia sedang merajuk, jangan sesekali bertanyakan apa yang sedang berlaku, kenapa dia merajuk, apakah perasaannya, dan sebagainya. Elakkan diri anda daripada bertanyakan apa-apa kepadanya.
Ini kerana, kehadiran anda akan mengganggu konsentrasinya untuk menyelesaikan masalah tersebut. Dan ini akan menyebabkan si dia akan semakin menjauhkan diri daripada anda kerana anda telah mengganggunya.

4. Buat sesuatu yang dapat mengembirakan hati anda
Ya, adalah lebih baik anda mengembirakan hati anda sendiri daripada anda memikirkan perasaan si dia. Pada ketika ini, si dia perlukan ruang untuk bersendirian. Jadi biarkan si dia bersendirian dan gunakan masa yang ada untuk menghiburkan diri anda."

 

 

#CopyPaste, cus, I think this might be useful. LOLS

Try~

Why try to hide..?

Why try to be invisible?

Why try to ignore?

Why try to avoid?

Why......???

Oh, because you are busy.

AND, I'm busy too.

I try to understand.

I try to follow the flow.

I try to keep steady.

I try to be the best.

I try to spend sometimes just to talk to you.. just to think of you.

I did try!

But you...??

I knew you are tired.

I knew~

I always knew it.

Last week~

last week,,

11th June -  18th June 2012~~

I totally din feel good.

I felt bad.

=___='

I was sick..

and,

I got three off days though! haha..

My off day shud be on Friday only..

But, I got 2-day MCs on Saturday and Sunday.

Now, I feel so-so.

havent totally recovered.

So, last week..?

Monday

- Busy with the new part-timers' orientation.

- Spent most of the times at the office

Tuesday

- Busy with preparations for Sugar Bun's family day.

- Got offended by A NEW PART-TIMER. He said, "Why u left si tuttt at the Lucky Draw Counter? Pity her. She hasn't got her lunch." =____= the hell. Thot, she was agreed that I go lunch first ????!! then I'll take her place at the LDC.. so, after he said that... I went downstair and asked her to go lunch. When myself, haven't. See? How much I'm consedering other people. *Eh? hahha.

- DOUBLE TUESDAY!!! Calvin treated us Pizzas!! Thanks, Vin. You've been so much kind to us! :)

- Oh! I played futsal today. My team won again. 10-8.. :) Ended up, my stomach aches..got 'kicked' by other team member. :( Can't really sleep, hard to move.. T_T

Wednesday

- I started to feel.... my stomachache getting worst. My muscles cramped. Hard to laugh.. :(

- EPIC STORY happended! Today, I went to Surau..for prayer. Then, when I was done..and get ready to walk out of the Surau, there was a woman I knew. She's working at one of the shop at Times Square. So, I smiled at her lah. She smiled back. After I put on my slipper at the area outside of the surau, I was quite surprised to see the hallway was so dark..I guess, maybe the light was 'tripped' or somebody switched off the light. So, I walk through the hallway. About two steps, I saw two switches.  Without hesitated, I press a switch downside. "Click!" The hallway still dark, no difference... AND, the female surau was all blackout!!! hahahah... I switch on the light at the female surau back..and ran away. I was afraid if the woman might scolded me. but nope~ hahahah!! At the end of the hallway, in front of the male surau.. there was another switch. Now, I was hesitated to 'PLAY' with switches. haha. I decided to press it..so I did. and, good heavens.. it was the right switch. Then, the light was functioning normally.

- Till now, I feel uneasy meeting the WOMAN. hahaha :p

- ON CALVIN'S TREAT, again~ =____= now, it's KFC!! thanks, VIN!! :(

Thursday

- Headache, headache, headache... busy with Mini Carnival's game..

- Got free lunch, by our Assistant Manager. Nasi Ayam Penyet! hahah. I did try 'my best' to reject, but... she kept on forcing me to eat!! =____='

- Balik kampong!! :) I missed my old bedroom.:3

Friday

- ........................

- Offday!! :)

- STOMACH ACHE!!!

- HEADACHE!!!

- Attending two events today. One at my neighbour, one at my cousin's.

- I slept with my lil bros.... but then in the middle of the night, I got back to my bedroom. Cus, TOO COLD!!! Wth with the air-cond. =_= In my bedroom, I din even bother to switch on the fan. I felt cold already. Even with two blankets, I was still shivering to death. So, the only solution I could think of.. Wear another long sleeve shirt, long pants, and jacket... BUT still.. too cold!! =___=' I was thinking of wearing socks.. But too weak to wake up.. So, just let me be like that. Shivering. Till I was too tired to feel the coldness, I fell asleep. And, once again.. I woke up.. this time, cus of.. TOO HOT!!! haha.. Guess, I was really sick. =__=' So, I removed the long sleeves shirt, long pants and the jacket.. anddd, switch on the fan. LOL! Sounds horrible.

- I played futsal...but for minutes only. Cus, too hot! Can't stand the heat from the sun...

- When I was about to get my 'siesta', my mommy was like.. "Yai!! Tu.. Inda kau meliat abang si Ikhwan? tu ada tu ya di luar..." =___= MOM!! Please? I just wanna see si Ikhwan... not his bro. lols. But, at the end.. I went out of my houseeeeee...and got to see his bro & mom. =_=

Saturday

- Super headache.. Stomach ache.

- Early in the morning, daddy woke me up, said.. "Inda kau keraja kah..?". Hm.. I was planning from last nite to get MC.. lols. But, seriously..due to my body was so weak.. my head was dizzy, my parents brought me to clinic. The nearest one is Pusat Kesihatan Mentiri, so we went there. The hell with the new systematic. =___= need to book first before coming. And, the empty slot was at 10.30, while at that time was still 8'O Clock. So, we went to Pusat Kesihatan Sungai Hancing.. and, had been there for more less 4 hours.. =___=' but, at least I got my MC, right? hahah.. :p

- My family told me, si Ikhwan was back......for awhile. And, he played guitar with his older bros. And, the thing is.. THEY TOLD ME WHEN IKHWAN and HIS FAMILY were leaving already. =____= hopeless.

Sunday

- Doing house works.....cooking, laundry..etc, watching TV - got LIVE from ICC (israk mi'raj event) and, there was 'THE BALL', Johan Musabaqah Tilawatil AlQuran peringkat kebangsaan, admire sii Miss H. hahah.. :)

- Shopping.

- Cooking for dinner. =___= hopeless lil brother. told me Ikhwan was outside his home.. but, when I checked... He was not there. Gone back to his 'old home', I guess. Why, why, WHY when it was so hard to see him..????? T.T






thats all.

Condolence~

Last nite,
Mr.D texted me.

Said,
His cousin's dad is just passed away.
To be specific, Isma's dad..

And,
I was like..
"HAH??"

Condolence to his family.
Though,
I don't really know him.

But, so sad..
as he lost his dad andddd, grandma in less than 24hours. :(

Kehilangan dua orang yang tersayang dalam satu masa.. so sad.
T_T

Salam Takziah.

HURTS~

Yesterday,
I played futsal again...
Ended up, our team won again.

Ended up, my stomach to hips area hurt,
-as got kicked by the other team, unintentionally. 
Ended up, my legs don't feel good.

Ended up, I couldn't sleep well last nite.
Ended up, I couldn't  laugh normally.
Ended up, I couldn't make more movements.
Ended up, I'm suffering.

I'm afraid to tell my parents about this.
I'm afraid if they are worried about me.
I'm afraid if they won't let me play futsal anymore.
I'm afraid if they force me to get a medical check up.

Simply,
I'm just afraid.

FED UP~

I'M FED UP!!!!!!


LIKE,
very, very fed up!!!!

I've lost my confidence!!!
I've lost my spirit!!!
I've lost my hope!!!
I've lost my mind!!!
I've lost my love!!!

Help me....




I'm lost..... T____T
and...
There's no one...
No one..
No one tries to help me..

I'm lost....


No one tries to help me..
Even you...
You know who.



:(

Busier than ever~

I'LL BE SO BUSY THIS WEEK....

NEXT WEEK...

and...

THE NEXT NEXT WEEK....



SORRY if you are looking out for me...

Sounds like, Im gonna die soon.
haha

BLOOD~

ANOTHER NEW ACHIEVMENT IN MY LIFE~!!! <3


Today,9th June 2012...

I DONATED MY BLOOD!!

Hoorayy! Saving lifes what matters to me... :)
Hopefully, whoever gets my blood healthy always.. :)
haha..
Sounds...weird! =___=

A bagful of my blood... :)

Since it was my first time donating blood...
Of course lah..
nervous yet excited feelings atu ada...
Mr.A and Mrs.B accompanied me just now..
THEY WERE SO AFRAID OF NEEDLE! hahah...

In this matter, in order to be brave.. you must get over what you are afraid of.. *EH?? hahha

whatever. merepek sangat aku ni.. =_=

Klang~

Mr.D pergi lagi.....
Pergi ke Klang...
Ada Lawn Bowls tournament...
huhu...



Pergilah....
Pergi.....
Saya tak kisah pon..
hahah..
Nadawah.. :(

Hmm..

GOOD LUCK, yo!!!

Wish you all the best with the Interclub Triples games!!! ^^

You know, I'm always here to support you.. Fighting!! <3




xoxo.

#IKH1~

Lately, mommy kept on talking about.....

IKHWAN!!

Oh pleaseee.... pleaseee... pleaseeee!!! Please lah stop....

=_____=

Nanti kau Ikhwan... Awas kau!!!!!! *Eh..? hahaha~ =_____='

Exhausted~

TIRED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tebuan Muda's #10~

Hello...

Now..

I wanna talk about this one Tebuan Muda's player lah..
I've talked about him before this, maybe last April?

So, for now.. Different story la..
If last time, I talked about how I made a phone call with him..

The HBT's player that I'm talking about is....................

 Mohd. Nurikhwan Bin Othman..

Hm..
My mommy has a friend..
And, her friend is Ikhwan's relative...
So, naturally..My mom's friend talked quite a lot of things to my mommy la..

One day, my mommy told me that..
Ikhwan is living at the same neighborhood as mine..
But, dunno which one is his house...

Then, a few days ago...
While in the car, going home from fetching me...
Surprisingly,
My parents said something like..
"Kami tahu sudah di mana rumah si Ikhwan~"

And, I was like..
"Huh??? Di mana?? Di mana???"

My mommy..
"Mana boleh bagitahu~"

=____=
Mom, I just wanna know..no other intentions. hahah :p

Ikhwan at Fans Signing session, at Times Square.

On his way back, from Fans Meeting, 120032012~

So, basically...
When we arrived at our neighborhood..
My mommy was like..
"Tu nah! Rumah si Ikhwan!"

anddddddddddd,
I was like..
"HAH??? Seriously..??"
=______=
Depan rumah kami pulang.... =_____='
I mean, not really infront of our home lah..like jarak a two houses only...
Hmm...
okay...so, 'WE' are neighbor!! haha..
not officially neighbor la, cus..his family not officially move to his new house..
so yeah..

But, I've seen him quite a few times there lahh.. :) haha~

Ikhwan #10

Ikhwan #10, this photo was taken during versus Malaysia kali? During HBT 2012. :)

anddddd,
I think..
He've seen me playing football~ =_______='
Please no!!! :/

Football~

Whooooottt.

There will be a Mini Carnival at T.S this June...
So, we need to prepare the mechanism though Mr.A is the one who given the task.
lols..

Hm...
Okay,
Our manager told the other routines to set up the bouncer...

Photo from Google.. More less the same, but this one is bigger than TS'. Hm, I din get the chance to take photo of us. lol

I mean, the inflatable football field one..
So, there we go..
We were having try out..
Decide what to play during that carnival..??

After try out games, handball & rugby..
The game has been decided..
Hm... Handball~ :)

Then, after settled everything..
We played soccer..!!
Yeahhh~
I mean, me and Mr.Goofy..
=__=


Yeahh, just the two of us..
Me against Mr.Goofy..
I was the striker, I was the goalkeeper...
haha.. =___=

Not bad though..
I was having fun playing football.. :)

 Somehow, I was afraid if Mrs.Goofy was going to be mad at me..
Cus,...
there was time, Mr.Goofy called out my name...said..
"Play football with me!"

But, Mrs.Goofy interfered and said, "Aku saja~"

And, I was like.. "oh..Okay! :)"
Then I stood next to Mr.A and...we chit chat lah...

They played for a few minutes..
Then, they stopped....
Mr.Goofy called out my name again...and asked to play with him..
So...?
We played.
And..
I managed to defeat him!!! haha :D



AND NOW.....
I'm planning to join FOOTBALL or FUTSALCLUB at UBD...
*If got one!! hahah

The Interview~

Seriously...

I haven't talked a bout the interview, rite?

Hm...

First of all,
Thanks to my neighbor for telling me about the vacancy...
Thanks to my daddy for persuading me to apply...
Thanks to myself for not daring to reject what my parents want...
Thanks to Mr.D for helping me to decide either to come or not...
Thanks to AHMAD SYAFIQ..for helping me to get the job...
Thanks to mommy for 'companying' me to come for the interview...
Thanks to Mrs.BOSS for giving me the application form...
Thanks to Mr.BOSS for interviewing me...
Thanks to everyone.


First thing,
Ahmad Syafiq.. hell. =__=
Why I suddenly remeber he sent a  text message to me saying
"My name is Ahmad Syafiq. Panggil saja Ahmad.. ok thanks"
=_____=

Then, the next day,.. (before interview, Sunday) I informed him about the interview...
and, why the hell he said this to me..
"So mlm ne r u bzy? where r u now?"
=_____=
Babo... I ended up not replying him.




OKAY!!

The interview was.....simple, quick.....and failure.
haha..
I failed, I'm happy...
as long as I don't get the job,..shud be fine.

Mr.Boss was quite surprised when I told him that I'm waiting for UBD....
hmm....
okaylah..
Don't get the job..
:)

Stalker is BACK~!!!

hahaha...

Now, THE STALKER is back in action!!

Haha.. Its been so long since the last time I stalked this guy..
Err.. I mean, my SENIOR!!!
hahaha...

I used to call him, Danny...before I knew his real name lorh... :)

But, hey!!
There's news about him!!
Good Heavens, The Brunei Times wrote something about him~ lols. :p
Not entirely my fault, by the way.. haha..

Credit : The Brunei Times

Its a good thing to know,
that he's doing well with his career.. :)
Success always, LCS!!! :')

Go, go for Brunei Badminton! <3



p/s : come to think about him, see!! My blog is in green color now~ haha! His fav. color. !! lols. :p


Ya Rabbi.. I shudn't behave like this.. =____=